FIVE COOL LITTLE STORY

1. Once, all villagers decided to pray for rain, on the day of prayer all the People gathered but only one boy came with an umbrella...
THAT'S FAITH

2. When you throw a baby in the air, she laughs because she knows you will catch her...
THAT'S TRUST

3.Every night we go to bed, without any assurance of being alive the next Morning but still we set the alarms in our watch to wake up...
THAT'S HOPE

4. We plan big things for tomorrow in spite of zero knowledge of the future or having any certainty of uncertainties. ..
THAT'S CONFIDENCE

5. We see the world suffering. We know there is every possibility of same or
similar things happening to us. But still we get married
THAT'S OVER CONFIDENCE!

p/s: WHATEVER HAPPEN, JUST

IT'S KILLING

A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said: 


'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year old and I'm pregnant again. I don't want kids so close together. 


So the doctor said: 'Ok and what do you want me to do?' 


She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.' 


The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you too.' 


She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request. 


Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.


The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child! 


'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be OK with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution.'


The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point. 


He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb.


The crime is the same!


If you agree, please SHARE. Together we can help save precious lives! 


"Love says I sacrifice myself for the good of the other person. Abortion says I sacrifice the other person for the good of myself..."

p/s: save your baby we never know how bright their future can be.

MUMMY SORRY I CAN NEVER SEE YOU,BUT I SAVE YOU

An accident happened, it was grave. Between two cars and both cars were crushed, inside one car there was a pregnant woman. At her early 20, very young and suspected to be a primigravida she was about 36 weeks near term and was unconscious.

When she opened her eyes she can only see lights pass over her as she was floating but everything were hazy because her Glasgow comma score is below normal level. She heard people shout "make way and step aside, we need an orthopedic surgeon and an obstetrician".

Little does she knows, she just had a major accident and the provisional diagnosis was open open book fracture pelvis with pregnancy. As any other pelvic fracture the blood loss is severe. She was definitely in shock!. Thus she was stabilized at the emergency room by blood and volume expander. 

Then came the two major player in this case, an orthopedic surgeon and an obstetrician. The first examined the pelvis clinically and call for a CT scan for better analyze and the latter checked the fetal viability by ultrasonic guidance.

But sadly, the fetus had no cardiac pulse and could not be save due to the trauma and the shock that occurred earlier. After that, the obstetric wanted to do a hysterotomy to remove the fetus because to him dead fetus will releases substance that induce coagulation and can cause Disseminated Intravascular Coagulation.

The orthopedic surgeon doesn't agree with his partner's opinion and they medically quarreled. After few calls and consultation from their seniors, the orthopedic surgeon proved a very crucial point. Never deliver the baby in pelvic fracture because the gravid uterus acts as an active packing that prevents the horrible bleeding in this kind of fracture and literally saves the mother. As for the DIC we should just monitor her Fibrinogen level and give her FFP or Frozen plasma.

They both have glassy eyes after realizing that the baby had saved his mother's life.

One of them add, "the baby saves his mother!! 

doesn't that very noble and touching?". Then the other one said

"indeed i'm sure that the baby is very proud of himself and says,

mummy sorry i can never see you, but i save you".

GOOD VS EVIL

The battle between good and evil is an ongoing process, whether we realize it or not.

Unless we tame it with taqwa, the human soul is certainly prone to evil. And with Satan's persuasion, wrongdoings are made easy. But with continuous soul purification, it will willingly bow to Allah's command.

When we feel gratified doing good things or uneasy when doing bad things, it indicates that we still have a healthy soul.

But when maksiat has no effect on you, then beware of Allah's wrath, as it is a clear indication that you are dead inside.

Although guidance is purely Allah's right to give it to whom He pleases, we as His slaves must persistently ask for it. And the effort towards change is mandatory; for Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in their hearts.

"Doktor, ada tips tak untuk meramaikan zuriat?"

Saya dikehendaki untuk menyediakan sebuah slot untuk sesi ceramah kesihatan


Antara fokus utama yang saya tekankan sewaktu slot tersebut ialah kepentingan perancangan keluarga bagi pasangan-pasangan yang baru berkahwin.


Saya terangkan, walaupun Nabi s.a.w. berbangga dengan bilangan umat baginda yang ramai, tetapi dalam masa yang sama Nabi berpesan agar umat Islam tidak menjadi seperti buih-buih di lautan; bilangannya banyak, tetapi amat lemah. Dalam erti kata yang lain, Nabi mementingkan KUALITI berbanding KUANTITI. Maka untuk mencapai hal itu, perancangan keluarga adalah mandatori bagi setiap pasangan.


Saya juga terangkan, bahawa antara persepsi di kalangan masyarakat Melayu yang perlu diperbetulkan ialah keperluan untuk melahirkan anak sebaik sahaja berkahwin. Mungkin kerana mereka takut dipandang serong oleh masyarakat atau dilabel dengan gelaran seperti 'mandul' dan sebagainya, maka ramailah yang mencuba untuk mendapatkan anak ketika usia perkahwinan masih setahun jagung.


Tiada salahnya, cuma kadangkala mereka terlepas pandang aspek-aspek penting seperti kekukuhan ekonomi keluarga, persediaan emosi dan mental sebagai ibu bapa, kelapangan masa untuk membesarkan anak-anak dan banyak lagi.


Saya mencadangkan kepada mereka agar tunggu setahun dua lagi sebelum mencuba mendapatkan anak. Mungkin setelah itu, ekonomi keluarga sudah agak kukuh, dalam erti kata suami mampu menyediakan kemudahan bersalin yang selesa, sama ada di hospital kerajaan atau swasta yang bukannya murah zaman sekarang.


Susu dan pampers sudah mampu dibeli secukupnya. Jika anak sakit, boleh dibawa ke klinik tanpa perlu berhutang atau menebal muka meminta sana sini. Belum cerita lagi kos tadika, sekolah rendah, sekolah menengah, dan universiti yang perlu ditanggung oleh ibu bapa dalam masa terdekat!


Ada ibu bapa yang kebanggaan mereka terletak pada jenama pakaian yang dipakai anaknya. Atau video games yang mahal-mahal. Namun bagi sebahagian yang lain, seperti ibu bapa saya sendiri, kebanggaan mereka terletak kepada kemampuan mereka menyediakan wad yang selesa di hospital swasta ketika kami keracunan makanan.. Atau menyediakan bahan bacaan kanak-kanak yang berkualiti untuk kami baca.. Atau dapat menghantar kami ke guru tusyen yang baik.. Atau keselesaan kami semasa belajar.. Kata kuncinya, 'Prioritize'.


Juga dalam tempoh setahun dua yang pertama itu, suami isteri boleh 'enjoy' perkahwinan mereka, berkenal-kenalan dan bergurau senda sepuas hati mereka, sebelum isteri menunjukkan 'belangnya' sewaktu hormon mengandung menguasai emosinya, dan sebelum anak-anak mencuri penuh perhatian suami ke atas isteri dan perhatian isteri ke atas suami.


Suami isteri juga perlu menyiapkan mental mereka sebelum mendapatkan anak. Perkara-perkara asas seperti keperluan nutrisi ibu dan anak, apa perlu dibuat jika anak yang baru lahir menjadi kuning, bagaimana cara menyusu yang betul.. Semua perlu diberi perhatian, bukan dah lahir baru kelam-kabut dan tak prepared.


Termasuk dalam persiapan mental juga ialah, suami yang merokok wajib untuk cuba berhenti sebelum isterinya mula mengandung; demi menjaga ekonomi keluarga dan juga kesihatan anak di dalam kandungan.


Siapa yang bakal menjaga anak juga perlu dibincangkan. Ibu bapa hari ini dengan mudahnya menghantar anak ke nursery, tanpa mengetahui bahawa didikan yang terbaik datangnya daripada ibu bapa sendiri.


Di negara-negara maju, salah seorang suami atau isteri sanggup berhenti kerja atau mengambil cuti tanpa gaji semata-mata untuk menjaga anak mereka yang baru lahir. Mereka juga akan mengkhaskan sebuah bilik (nursery room) khas untuk bayi tersebut. Semua ini demi memastikan anak mereka membesar dengan baik dan mendapat kasih sayang secukupnya.

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Selepas itu, saya jelaskan kepada mereka, bahawa konsep perancangan keluarga ini bukan satu konsep yang baru diperkenalkan oleh perubatan moden. Ia telah pun disarankan oleh Nabi s.a.w. lebih 1400 tahun dahulu.


Al-Quran dan hadis Nabi menggalakkan umatnya menjarangkan anak, sekurang-kurangnya 2 tahun. "Para ibu hendaklah menyusukan anak-anaknya selama dua tahun penuh." [Al-Baqarah: 233] Dengan cara ini, anak dapat menyusu dengan sempurna, dan mendapat perhatian dan didikan secukupnya daripada ibu bapa sebelum mendapat 'adik baru'.


Nabi di dalam sebuah hadis yang dilaporkan oleh Abu Daud mengingatkan, “Janganlah kamu membunuh anak-anak kamu secara senyap-senyap (gheelah), kerana ‘gheelah’ merampas kuda dari penunggangnya lalu menjatuhkannya dari kuda tersebut.”


Jika anak hanya diselangkan setahun, bermakna, belum sempat anak pertama menyusu penuh selama 2 tahun, dia perlu berkongsi susu ibu dengan adiknya. Inilah yang dinamakan 'gheelah'.

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Namun setelah beria-ia memahamkan para hadirin tentang kepentingan perancangan keluarga pada slot itu, ketika sesi soal jawab seorang hadirin bangun lalu bertanyakan soalan,


"Doktor, ada tips tak untuk meramaikan zuriat?"

IT'S NOT JUST THE AMOUNT

Kita selalu dengar kenyataan bahawa wanita yang paling berkat ialah yang paling murah mas kahwinnya.

Sebenarnya hadis yang diriwayatkan daripada Aisyah r.a. ini menyebut 'yang paling mudah', bukan yang paling 'murah'. Dan 'mudah' ini subjektif sifatnya.

Mungkin bagi anak jutawan, RM50,000 dianggap mudah. Bagi seorang doktor, RM10,000 dianggap mudah. Bagi seorang pelajar universiti, RM 3,000 pun sudah dikira sukar.

Jika mahu berpegang sungguh pada sunnah, empat daripada isteri Nabi s.a.w. dinikahi dengan mas kahwin 400 dirham.

1 dirham sewaktu zaman Nabi boleh beli seekor ayam.

Kita letak harga ayam hari ini RM15 seekor. Dengan mengambil kira kadar inflasi, bermakna maskahwin hari ini RM6,000 adalah average, dan mengikut tauladan Nabi.

Tak lah 'murah' seperti yang kita expect =)

CHARACTER VS REPUTATION

It takes a lifetime to build a reputation, but only a few seconds to destroy it.

But if you're fighting for a good cause, don't worry much about it. Because reputation is merely what others think of you. Character, on the other hand, is what you truly are.

Worry more about what Allah has to say about you. Because that's what matters most.

Try very hard to gain His love. Love those on earth, and those in heaven will love you. [Hadis qudsi]. And when Allah loves you, He will throw affections into people's heart towards you.

But if you want to make people like you at the expense of your obedience to Allah, think again.

Because whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah at the risk of displeasing the people, Allah will take care of him and protect him from them. But whoever seeks the pleasure of the people at the risk of displeasing Allah, He will abandon him to the care of the people. [Hadis narrated by Aishah r.a]

IT'S HER BIRTHDAY

30th June 2011

Today is my dearest dear sweetie budak DK birthday :) 

this during her childhood [sumpah paling comel kan :)]

this her now...still cute like her childhood :)

dear dah besaq dah sekarangkan dah boleh jadi mama orang

So for this entry I would like to wish :

HAPPY 20th BIRTHDAY NOR QURRATUL AIN BINTI JAMAL

MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU 

MAY ALL WISH AND DREAM COME TRUE

MAY EVERYTHING WE PLAN GOING SMOOTHLY

MAY YOUR PATH BE FILLED WITH TONS OF HAPPINESS AS MUCH AS YOU DESERVE

 I love you so much and I always do so forever dear :)

So sorry there is nothing special for you on your special day , sorry no time for you on your birthday, sorry I got so busy on your birthday but I try my best to fill your birthday with something that not so sweet moment but it's for you . Hope you enjoy your birthday sayang :) and   good luck for your study at IIUM Kuantan . Do the best for your future..urm our future sound better right dear :).

And really really really sorry to akak yang jual baju tu..sorry for coming to your shop lot of time, I just try to find the best dress for her :) .Really big tq for you cz layan this blur doctor and teach me all about the kain that I never know before.

THIS NOT SO SWEET GUY REALLY LOVE YOU DEAR HOPE YOU HAPPY WITH ME :)

PATIENT = LIAR?

As doctors, we are trained to be skeptical, because our patients lie all the time. The rule is, every patient is a liar until proven honest.


For some people, lying is a necessity. Sometimes we lie to protect the people we love. Sometimes we even lie to ourselves because the truth freakin' hurts.


Lying is bad for yourself. Especially when you are a patient.


It's NOT OK to lie to your doctor. It prevents your doctor to come to an accurate diagnosis and subsequently, you'll get the wrong treatment and management.


Sometimes patients do not lie. They just conceal the truth. There's a huge difference. For them, what people don't know won't hurt them. But the truth is that, even the smallest detail counts as far as your doctor is concerned.


You have no idea how the little things could change everything. Even the choice of words used is important.


For instance, when the doctor is taking history of a patient having trouble breathing. The patient is asked whether he takes any drugs. Not knowing the importance of it, the patient answered, "some aspirin".


After an extensive examination including tox screen, turns out the patient has 'aspirin toxicity'. The doctor couldn't find out about it earlier due to the misinterpreting of the word 'some'; which obviously in this case, is not a small amount after all. But to the patient, it is.


That's why doctors have to be smart. Being a diagnostician is a lot like being a detective.

IT'S YOUR JOB BUT WHAT WILL YOU SAY?

Every doctor is constantly reminded that all life is sacred. Regardless of one's skin color and religious background, there must be no discrimination when it comes to saving lives.Even in Islam, no saint takes advantage over a sinner. Every patient must be treated the same in a doctor's eyes.

But how do we really grasp this concept when it comes to real life? Can we be so sure that we won't discriminate against anybody? Yes? Hold that thought.

Should the circumstance force you to do mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to this guy, would you perform it? :)
Sure you can argue that nowadays, in cardiac arrest, it is no longer considered as one of the cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) components because chest compression alone should suffice. But that's only true if you live in a world where cardiac arrest is the ONLY indication for mouth-to-mouth resuscitation.


What about respiratory arrest? In this case, pulse is present. So chest compression is moot and artificial respiration is needed more.Say if this guy were to drown in a swimming pool and you happened to be nearby. There's no pocket mask, ambu bag, or any other device whatsoever to use instead. What would you do?


Help? Not help?


:)

YOU GIVE ME THIS :)

You see it all in your smile
You hear it all in your laugh
The way you walk
You no longer sad
You've got more reason to smile
More now than You've ever had
Open your eyes and realized
That nothing's quite that bad

You've got a different approach
To dealing with emotion
Keeping control of your boat
While drifting on this ocean
Keeping your head to the sky
Keeping tears out of your eyes

And life's too short
To dwell on all that's wrong
Stand up now
You'll be feeling better today
Much better today
Feeling so much better
You feel like if you try
You could fly away right now
All because you've finally found your smile

MY DEAR BELOVED UMMI

Ummi,
 I know I don't deserve to call you ummi but I really want to call you ummi as she called you ummi :). First time she introducing me with your family she telling me that she called her mom as 'ummi'. And me honestly randomly hear somebody call their mother as ummi..Then she telling me her mother work as a teacher who teach Islamic Knowledge. At that time.. I was thinking how lucky she is got an awesome ummi like you.


Ummi,
Today I wanna said a lot of thank you for answer each of the question that I asked Ain to seek for the answer from you, even you didn't know this boy who always told her to do so,it's really meaningful to me. Now I know that we don't have to qada' our prayer if we are in operation cz we struggle to help people in need..We can jama' the prayer if we have too..and I know that whatever we do put your religion in the first stage.. Thank you again ummi. Your answer really open my eyes and my mind that Islam is the best way of life. Islam is not that hard as I used to think before. It's really perfect. Each things happen got reason,each thing we do just for Him.


Ummi,
This boy also wanna say really sorry to you cz had fallen in love with your daughter without your knowledge.
See her face,stalking at her for the whole day without your permission. But ummi this boy really wanna your little daughter be him someday. He really mean it ummi


Ummi,
I want a gentle touch without guilty,a soothing voice in my ears,a sweet medicine of laughter,a soft pressure on my shoulder,the coolness of my eyes,a blessing from above, a pair of wing like a dove. I want the other half of me and among His signs that he create for me from myself, mates that I may find tranquillity in her, and He can placed between us affection and mercy. I hope part of me is your daughter.


Ummi,
Thank you for take care of her in very very amazing way,till she afraid to see my face even I'm in front of her, thank you for teaching her to take care of her aurat coz I never see any part of her that I should't see it before we getting married. Thank you for teaching to read holy Quran cz now she teaching me how. And big thank you for teaching her the important of prayer, cz every morning she wake me up to perform subuh :) and always remember me to perform my solat even how busy I am. You really an awesome , amazing working mother and I really respect and solute you.


Ummi you know what I LOVE YOU. Hope one day I can love you exactly like I love my mom :)


To MRS EZY HASLINDA, ma of coz Ayip love you kan...tq for provoc me to write this :) I LOVE YOU A LOT ..you know this right?

My dad My Hero

Have you heard people said you don't know what your have till it's gone.. If you asked me what the best thing about my life,I'm not gonna say it's about my job,my car,my study,my friend or others else..but the BEST thing about my life and I keep missing it the most now is my family,especially my beloved BABA...

Ba,I written this letter so many time,but not in the paper..just in my mind, my heart is capable of saying,when words are dying and fading, it's funny how useless I'm writing this entry right,almost as useless as blown kiss. Now you just too far away from me. I don't know how to get to you and seriously I can't find the way at all.

You someone I barely even knew. Why thing have to be this way? You being gone this fast.. The time your little know nothing boy hoping you're there for him. Physically distances can be covered. But what do I do with this spiritual emptiness? This space between me and you. Can't cover this space even how hard I try. You know I wish I could somebody else,just for one day. See what it's like to live in those shoes, to have everyone at your feet. I wish I could have my laugh but I think it's gone. Since that day, that dreadful day, when I found out the news. You leaving me forever. 

Ba I still remember the day you woke me up to the school but I refused to wake up..you didn't get mad to me but you slowly lift me from my bed and brought me to the bathroom. But I still refused to open my eyes. You just said  ' ayiq don't be like this sayang,you will be late to school and mama will start babbler at you and me' 

You bathe me and wear me my school uniform and feeding me . Everything I asked from you you will make it true..even sometime it's look like silly wish. I never had to pay each thing you give me by money...but you just asked me to say 'baba tq, ayiq love this so much and of course ayiq love you' and that can make you smile for whole day.. I do remember your touch,your forehead kiss and advice before I sleep and you always said I'm the only son you have...do make you proud.. I will baba.. I promise this to you. Now I really miss your voice singing me the lullaby song before I sleep, the feeling of your kisses to make me smile when I was crying. So many memories longing about you. A future that wants you to be alive and true. 

BABA I LOVE YOU :')

Because I Love You

For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I'll be forever thankful baby
You're the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You're the one who saw me through through it all

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I'm grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don't know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You've been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

_it's for my dearest mrs CEO_

DOCTOR DO WRITE LOVE LETTER

TO Dearest Dear
Last night i had a fight with my princess,it's my fault kan dears :'(

however you manage to get us together back like you used to :) . hey! you're really amazing love .

As I said ,whenever we are apart from each other ,I always get mad easily even you had done anything wrong .

Yeah I'm seeking for your attention maybe . But who cares , I am an attention seeker only for my beloved NQA .

One thing for sure , no matter what you won"t lost faith in me .That makes us still standing till today . You tolerate , listen , agree and gives only the best for me even I am not a perfect boyfriend . I am full of flaws . But you always said that it doesn't matter as long as we love each other .

 
I do love you NQA , I can imagine my future with you in it . I want to finish my studies with you , having a nice job with you[dear doctor and nurse do so sweet you know] and build one big happy family with you [twin twinkle twinkle little star do very cute kan3].