FIVE COOL LITTLE STORY

1. Once, all villagers decided to pray for rain, on the day of prayer all the People gathered but only one boy came with an umbrella...
THAT'S FAITH

2. When you throw a baby in the air, she laughs because she knows you will catch her...
THAT'S TRUST

3.Every night we go to bed, without any assurance of being alive the next Morning but still we set the alarms in our watch to wake up...
THAT'S HOPE

4. We plan big things for tomorrow in spite of zero knowledge of the future or having any certainty of uncertainties. ..
THAT'S CONFIDENCE

5. We see the world suffering. We know there is every possibility of same or
similar things happening to us. But still we get married
THAT'S OVER CONFIDENCE!

p/s: WHATEVER HAPPEN, JUST

IT'S KILLING

A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said: 


'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year old and I'm pregnant again. I don't want kids so close together. 


So the doctor said: 'Ok and what do you want me to do?' 


She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.' 


The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you too.' 


She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request. 


Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.


The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child! 


'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be OK with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution.'


The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point. 


He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb.


The crime is the same!


If you agree, please SHARE. Together we can help save precious lives! 


"Love says I sacrifice myself for the good of the other person. Abortion says I sacrifice the other person for the good of myself..."

p/s: save your baby we never know how bright their future can be.

MUMMY SORRY I CAN NEVER SEE YOU,BUT I SAVE YOU

An accident happened, it was grave. Between two cars and both cars were crushed, inside one car there was a pregnant woman. At her early 20, very young and suspected to be a primigravida she was about 36 weeks near term and was unconscious.

When she opened her eyes she can only see lights pass over her as she was floating but everything were hazy because her Glasgow comma score is below normal level. She heard people shout "make way and step aside, we need an orthopedic surgeon and an obstetrician".

Little does she knows, she just had a major accident and the provisional diagnosis was open open book fracture pelvis with pregnancy. As any other pelvic fracture the blood loss is severe. She was definitely in shock!. Thus she was stabilized at the emergency room by blood and volume expander. 

Then came the two major player in this case, an orthopedic surgeon and an obstetrician. The first examined the pelvis clinically and call for a CT scan for better analyze and the latter checked the fetal viability by ultrasonic guidance.

But sadly, the fetus had no cardiac pulse and could not be save due to the trauma and the shock that occurred earlier. After that, the obstetric wanted to do a hysterotomy to remove the fetus because to him dead fetus will releases substance that induce coagulation and can cause Disseminated Intravascular Coagulation.

The orthopedic surgeon doesn't agree with his partner's opinion and they medically quarreled. After few calls and consultation from their seniors, the orthopedic surgeon proved a very crucial point. Never deliver the baby in pelvic fracture because the gravid uterus acts as an active packing that prevents the horrible bleeding in this kind of fracture and literally saves the mother. As for the DIC we should just monitor her Fibrinogen level and give her FFP or Frozen plasma.

They both have glassy eyes after realizing that the baby had saved his mother's life.

One of them add, "the baby saves his mother!! 

doesn't that very noble and touching?". Then the other one said

"indeed i'm sure that the baby is very proud of himself and says,

mummy sorry i can never see you, but i save you".

GOOD VS EVIL

The battle between good and evil is an ongoing process, whether we realize it or not.

Unless we tame it with taqwa, the human soul is certainly prone to evil. And with Satan's persuasion, wrongdoings are made easy. But with continuous soul purification, it will willingly bow to Allah's command.

When we feel gratified doing good things or uneasy when doing bad things, it indicates that we still have a healthy soul.

But when maksiat has no effect on you, then beware of Allah's wrath, as it is a clear indication that you are dead inside.

Although guidance is purely Allah's right to give it to whom He pleases, we as His slaves must persistently ask for it. And the effort towards change is mandatory; for Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in their hearts.

"Doktor, ada tips tak untuk meramaikan zuriat?"

Saya dikehendaki untuk menyediakan sebuah slot untuk sesi ceramah kesihatan


Antara fokus utama yang saya tekankan sewaktu slot tersebut ialah kepentingan perancangan keluarga bagi pasangan-pasangan yang baru berkahwin.


Saya terangkan, walaupun Nabi s.a.w. berbangga dengan bilangan umat baginda yang ramai, tetapi dalam masa yang sama Nabi berpesan agar umat Islam tidak menjadi seperti buih-buih di lautan; bilangannya banyak, tetapi amat lemah. Dalam erti kata yang lain, Nabi mementingkan KUALITI berbanding KUANTITI. Maka untuk mencapai hal itu, perancangan keluarga adalah mandatori bagi setiap pasangan.


Saya juga terangkan, bahawa antara persepsi di kalangan masyarakat Melayu yang perlu diperbetulkan ialah keperluan untuk melahirkan anak sebaik sahaja berkahwin. Mungkin kerana mereka takut dipandang serong oleh masyarakat atau dilabel dengan gelaran seperti 'mandul' dan sebagainya, maka ramailah yang mencuba untuk mendapatkan anak ketika usia perkahwinan masih setahun jagung.


Tiada salahnya, cuma kadangkala mereka terlepas pandang aspek-aspek penting seperti kekukuhan ekonomi keluarga, persediaan emosi dan mental sebagai ibu bapa, kelapangan masa untuk membesarkan anak-anak dan banyak lagi.


Saya mencadangkan kepada mereka agar tunggu setahun dua lagi sebelum mencuba mendapatkan anak. Mungkin setelah itu, ekonomi keluarga sudah agak kukuh, dalam erti kata suami mampu menyediakan kemudahan bersalin yang selesa, sama ada di hospital kerajaan atau swasta yang bukannya murah zaman sekarang.


Susu dan pampers sudah mampu dibeli secukupnya. Jika anak sakit, boleh dibawa ke klinik tanpa perlu berhutang atau menebal muka meminta sana sini. Belum cerita lagi kos tadika, sekolah rendah, sekolah menengah, dan universiti yang perlu ditanggung oleh ibu bapa dalam masa terdekat!


Ada ibu bapa yang kebanggaan mereka terletak pada jenama pakaian yang dipakai anaknya. Atau video games yang mahal-mahal. Namun bagi sebahagian yang lain, seperti ibu bapa saya sendiri, kebanggaan mereka terletak kepada kemampuan mereka menyediakan wad yang selesa di hospital swasta ketika kami keracunan makanan.. Atau menyediakan bahan bacaan kanak-kanak yang berkualiti untuk kami baca.. Atau dapat menghantar kami ke guru tusyen yang baik.. Atau keselesaan kami semasa belajar.. Kata kuncinya, 'Prioritize'.


Juga dalam tempoh setahun dua yang pertama itu, suami isteri boleh 'enjoy' perkahwinan mereka, berkenal-kenalan dan bergurau senda sepuas hati mereka, sebelum isteri menunjukkan 'belangnya' sewaktu hormon mengandung menguasai emosinya, dan sebelum anak-anak mencuri penuh perhatian suami ke atas isteri dan perhatian isteri ke atas suami.


Suami isteri juga perlu menyiapkan mental mereka sebelum mendapatkan anak. Perkara-perkara asas seperti keperluan nutrisi ibu dan anak, apa perlu dibuat jika anak yang baru lahir menjadi kuning, bagaimana cara menyusu yang betul.. Semua perlu diberi perhatian, bukan dah lahir baru kelam-kabut dan tak prepared.


Termasuk dalam persiapan mental juga ialah, suami yang merokok wajib untuk cuba berhenti sebelum isterinya mula mengandung; demi menjaga ekonomi keluarga dan juga kesihatan anak di dalam kandungan.


Siapa yang bakal menjaga anak juga perlu dibincangkan. Ibu bapa hari ini dengan mudahnya menghantar anak ke nursery, tanpa mengetahui bahawa didikan yang terbaik datangnya daripada ibu bapa sendiri.


Di negara-negara maju, salah seorang suami atau isteri sanggup berhenti kerja atau mengambil cuti tanpa gaji semata-mata untuk menjaga anak mereka yang baru lahir. Mereka juga akan mengkhaskan sebuah bilik (nursery room) khas untuk bayi tersebut. Semua ini demi memastikan anak mereka membesar dengan baik dan mendapat kasih sayang secukupnya.

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Selepas itu, saya jelaskan kepada mereka, bahawa konsep perancangan keluarga ini bukan satu konsep yang baru diperkenalkan oleh perubatan moden. Ia telah pun disarankan oleh Nabi s.a.w. lebih 1400 tahun dahulu.


Al-Quran dan hadis Nabi menggalakkan umatnya menjarangkan anak, sekurang-kurangnya 2 tahun. "Para ibu hendaklah menyusukan anak-anaknya selama dua tahun penuh." [Al-Baqarah: 233] Dengan cara ini, anak dapat menyusu dengan sempurna, dan mendapat perhatian dan didikan secukupnya daripada ibu bapa sebelum mendapat 'adik baru'.


Nabi di dalam sebuah hadis yang dilaporkan oleh Abu Daud mengingatkan, “Janganlah kamu membunuh anak-anak kamu secara senyap-senyap (gheelah), kerana ‘gheelah’ merampas kuda dari penunggangnya lalu menjatuhkannya dari kuda tersebut.”


Jika anak hanya diselangkan setahun, bermakna, belum sempat anak pertama menyusu penuh selama 2 tahun, dia perlu berkongsi susu ibu dengan adiknya. Inilah yang dinamakan 'gheelah'.

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Namun setelah beria-ia memahamkan para hadirin tentang kepentingan perancangan keluarga pada slot itu, ketika sesi soal jawab seorang hadirin bangun lalu bertanyakan soalan,


"Doktor, ada tips tak untuk meramaikan zuriat?"

IT'S NOT JUST THE AMOUNT

Kita selalu dengar kenyataan bahawa wanita yang paling berkat ialah yang paling murah mas kahwinnya.

Sebenarnya hadis yang diriwayatkan daripada Aisyah r.a. ini menyebut 'yang paling mudah', bukan yang paling 'murah'. Dan 'mudah' ini subjektif sifatnya.

Mungkin bagi anak jutawan, RM50,000 dianggap mudah. Bagi seorang doktor, RM10,000 dianggap mudah. Bagi seorang pelajar universiti, RM 3,000 pun sudah dikira sukar.

Jika mahu berpegang sungguh pada sunnah, empat daripada isteri Nabi s.a.w. dinikahi dengan mas kahwin 400 dirham.

1 dirham sewaktu zaman Nabi boleh beli seekor ayam.

Kita letak harga ayam hari ini RM15 seekor. Dengan mengambil kira kadar inflasi, bermakna maskahwin hari ini RM6,000 adalah average, dan mengikut tauladan Nabi.

Tak lah 'murah' seperti yang kita expect =)

CHARACTER VS REPUTATION

It takes a lifetime to build a reputation, but only a few seconds to destroy it.

But if you're fighting for a good cause, don't worry much about it. Because reputation is merely what others think of you. Character, on the other hand, is what you truly are.

Worry more about what Allah has to say about you. Because that's what matters most.

Try very hard to gain His love. Love those on earth, and those in heaven will love you. [Hadis qudsi]. And when Allah loves you, He will throw affections into people's heart towards you.

But if you want to make people like you at the expense of your obedience to Allah, think again.

Because whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah at the risk of displeasing the people, Allah will take care of him and protect him from them. But whoever seeks the pleasure of the people at the risk of displeasing Allah, He will abandon him to the care of the people. [Hadis narrated by Aishah r.a]